Overthinking & Racing Thoughts Therapy in Calgary | NU Psychology

Overthinking can feel like your brain is constantly in motion — replaying conversations, imagining every possible outcome, questioning decisions, or trying to solve problems that don’t even exist yet. You might lie in bed exhausted, but your thoughts keep circling. Or you notice your mind speeding up the moment you finally pause.

It’s not that you want to think this much. It’s that your nervous system has learned to stay alert, prepared, and in motion.

Racing thoughts often develop in response to stress, anxiety, ADHD, perfectionism, or past experiences that taught your brain it needed to stay “on” to be safe. Whatever your path has been, therapy can help you understand what’s driving the mental noise — and support your mind in finding steadier, quieter rhythms.

You deserve moments of peace you don’t have to work for.

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Hands working with a colourful puzzle cube during a grounding exercise in therapy.

What Overthinking Can Feel Like

Overthinking and racing thoughts are rarely just “thinking too much.” They are emotional patterns that show up in your mind and your body.

You may feel:

  • A constant sense of mental busyness, even during downtime

  • Overanalyzing interactions or decisions

  • Worry that spirals quickly into “what if” scenarios

  • Difficulty relaxing or enjoying the moment

  • Feeling like your brain won’t stop scanning for something to fix

  • Distractibility or restlessness

  • Tension in the chest, stomach, or jaw

  • Feeling easily overwhelmed but unable to shut down

Many people blame themselves for being “too sensitive” or “too in their head,” but racing thoughts often reflect a nervous system trying to protect you — not a flaw in who you are.

Why Racing Thoughts Happen

Your mind may feel busy for many reasons, including:

  • Chronic stress or prolonged periods of worry

  • Anxiety patterns that keep the mind looping

  • ADHD-related thought acceleration or difficulty shifting attention

  • Trauma or earlier experiences of unpredictability

  • High self-expectations or pressure to get everything “right”

  • Emotional overload that hasn’t had space to be processed

When your mind has learned to stay vigilant, slowing down can feel uncomfortable — even unsafe. Therapy helps you understand where these patterns come from and how to shift them gently rather than forcing yourself to “just stop thinking.”

How NU Supports Overthinking & Racing Thoughts

We approach overthinking with warmth and curiosity, not pressure. Your therapist will work with you to understand the emotional, cognitive, and physiological roots of your thought patterns. Support may include:

  • Strategies for calming the nervous system

  • Tools for interrupting looping thoughts without suppressing them

  • Narrative Therapy to explore the internal stories driving pressure or worry

  • CBT to challenge unhelpful thinking patterns

  • EMDR when racing thoughts are tied to stress or past experiences

  • Acceptance-based approaches that reduce the fight with your mind

You might benefit from therapy if:

  • Your mind feels “on” even when your body is tired

  • You replay conversations or decisions long after they’re done

  • You feel stuck in cycles of worry, pressure, or analysis

  • Situations feel overwhelming because your mind won’t slow down

  • You feel disconnected from the present moment

  • Overthinking affects your sleep, mood, or confidence

  • You find yourself preparing for problems that haven’t happened

Therapy doesn’t ask you to jump straight into calm.

It helps you build safety and steadiness first, so slowing down feels possible — and eventually natural.

Clients engaging in a creative therapy activity to ease racing thoughts and support emotional regulation.

What Healing Can Look Like

As your nervous system softens and your mind learns new patterns, you may begin to notice:

  • More spaciousness between thoughts

  • Less urgency, even when stress is present

  • Quicker recovery after spirals

  • Greater trust in your decisions

  • An ability to pause without your mind rushing in

  • More presence in your relationships and daily life

  • A quieter internal world, at least some of the time

Healing is not about never overthinking — it’s about not feeling controlled by it.

Support for Teens & Adults

Teens & Young Adults

Racing thoughts often show up alongside academic pressure, social stress, and developing identities. We help teens understand their inner world, build emotional regulation skills, and create more predictable routines.

Adults

For adults, overthinking may be tied to burnout, caregiving responsibilities, trauma, ADHD, relationship stress, or perfectionism. Therapy supports a calmer mind and a more grounded, intentional pace.

Start Overthinking Therapy in Calgary

If your mind feels busy, loud, or hard to live inside, you don’t have to navigate it alone. Therapy can help you feel more grounded, more present, and more connected to yourself. Book online, call, or email to get matched with a Calgary psychologist who specializes in overthinking, anxiety, ADHD, and emotional wellness.

NU Psychology is located in Killarney, Calgary, easy to reach from:

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Frequently Asked Questions

  • Not always. It can be tied to anxiety, ADHD, trauma, or stress patterns. Therapists help you understand the specific roots of your experience.

  • Yes. Therapy supports both the mind and the nervous system, giving you tools that reduce spirals and create a sense of internal quiet.

  • This is common and often linked to past experiences. Therapy helps build safety so relaxation feels less threatening over time.