NU PSYCHOLOGY BLOG
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Explore articles from NU Psychology on therapy, ADHD, anxiety, OCD, trauma, EMDR, depression, relationships, burnout, neurodiversity, and psychological assessments. Our Calgary psychologists share practical, evidence-informed resources to help adults, older teens, couples, and families better understand mental health and take meaningful next steps.
Somatic Therapy: Body-Based Trauma Work Explained
You can tell the story without crying, and a slamming door still puts your shoulders up. Body-based therapy exists for that gap. Here is what somatic work actually involves, where it came from, what the evidence genuinely supports, why polyvagal theory should be held lightly, and what to check before booking in Alberta, where the word somatic is not a protected title.
Attachment Styles Explained: The Four Patterns and What They Mean
Secure, anxious, dismissing-avoidant, fearful-avoidant: four names that get used as personality types. Here is what each pattern actually looks like in a relationship, where it comes from, and what the research says about changing yours.
Anger Management Therapy: What It Actually Involves
"Anger management" makes most people picture a court order and folding chairs. It began as something else entirely: a 1975 research project that became one of the better studied treatments in applied psychology. Here is where it came from, what actually happens in sessions, who it helps most, and when something underneath the anger needs treating first.
EFT and the Gottman Method: Couples Therapy Explained
You raise it, they go quiet or defensive, and within four minutes you are both somewhere familiar. Emotionally Focused Therapy and the Gottman Method are the two most researched approaches to couples therapy, and both work on what sits underneath that argument. Here is how each one works, how they differ, and what a course of couples therapy actually looks like.
Solution-Focused Brief Therapy: SFBT Explained
Solution-focused brief therapy starts from an unusual place: not what is wrong, but what you want instead and when a little of it already happens. What SFBT is, where it came from, the questions it uses, what sessions look like, how many you are likely to need, and who it suits.
Internal Family Systems Therapy: IFS Explained
Part of you wants to go, part of you says that's reckless, and a third part criticizes both. Internal Family Systems treats that as ordinary rather than broken. What IFS says about the mind, what protective parts are protecting, what a session involves, and who it suits.
Dialectical Behaviour Therapy: DBT Explained
Dialectical Behaviour Therapy was built for people whose emotions arrive faster than their thinking. What DBT is, where it came from, the four sets of skills it teaches, what the work looks like week to week, who it helps most, and what it is not.
Why Am I So Angry All the Time? What Your Irritability May Be Telling You
A cupboard left open, a slammed door, and then the embarrassment. If you have been more irritable than you used to be, your anger may be carrying a message. Learn what anger often covers, how stress, depression, ADHD, trauma, and perimenopause can shorten the fuse, and how to change what happens next.
Psychologist, Counsellor, or Psychiatrist? Choosing the Right Help in Alberta
R. Psych., RSW, CCC, MD: the letters after a name can make getting help feel harder than it should. This guide explains what psychologists, psychiatrists, and counsellors in Alberta each do, who can diagnose and prescribe, what is covered, and how to match the right professional to what you need.
Perimenopause Anxiety: Why It's Rarely Just Hormones
Awake at 3:40 a.m. with a list that will not stop, and told the answer is hormones? For most women, midlife anxiety has many sources: sleep, caregiving, work, finances, personal history, and the messages we absorb about aging. Here is what the research shows, and why good care looks at the whole person.
Why Do We Keep Having the Same Fight? The Cycle Beneath the Argument
It starts with something small, a late arrival or a tone of voice, and ends the same way it always does. If you and your partner keep having the same fight, the topic is rarely the real issue. Learn how the pursue-withdraw cycle works, what each of you is protecting, and when couples therapy can help.
How Much Does Therapy Cost in Calgary? A Clear Guide for 2026
Wondering what therapy will actually cost? This plain guide covers psychologist fees in Calgary for 2026, what a session includes, how extended health benefits and the medical expense tax credit change the real number, the questions to ask your insurer, and where to turn if private therapy is out of reach right now.
High-Functioning Depression: Getting Everything Done and Feeling Almost Nothing
You go to work, answer every email, show up for everyone, and still feel flat, heavy, or strangely distant from your own life. High-functioning depression often hides behind competence. Here is what it is, why it can feel like personality, how it differs from burnout and high-functioning anxiety, and what helps it lift.
Relapse in Recovery: What a Slip Means, and What It Doesn't
The morning after a slip, the mind reaches for a verdict: all that time, gone. For National Recovery Awareness Month, we look at why shame after a lapse can pull people back toward using, how a lapse differs from a relapse, what recovery keeps even after a slip, and when it makes sense to reach for more support.
Adult Autism: Recognizing It Later in Life in Calgary
A growing number of adults are discovering, often after a child's diagnosis or a late-night thread that named their whole life, that they may be autistic. This is a look at why autism was missed for so long, the hidden cost of masking, and what a later-in-life understanding can offer the person who spent years feeling broken.
Health Anxiety: The Worry That Never Quite Settles
A headache becomes a tumour by bedtime, and no amount of googling or reassurance settles it for long. This is a look at health anxiety, why it is rarely about the symptom itself, why the checking and reassurance that bring relief actually keep it going, and how therapy helps you step off the cycle.
Thinking About an Adult ADHD Assessment? What It’s Really Like
A lot of adults arrive at the same late-night question: is this ADHD, or am I just failing to try hard enough? This is a look at why ADHD is so often missed until adulthood, what an assessment actually involves, and what a diagnosis can and cannot do for the person who has spent years wondering.
Intrusive Thoughts: Why They Stick and How ERP Helps
Almost everyone has had a thought so disturbing or out of character that it left them shaken and afraid of what it might mean. This is a look at what intrusive thoughts actually are, why the content is the opposite of what you fear, why trying to push them away makes them louder, and how a therapy called ERP helps people get unstuck.
Compassion Fatigue: When Caring for Others Runs You Empty
If you work or live in a role built around caring for others, you may notice a strange flatness creeping in, a numbness where concern used to be, and a guilt about feeling it. This is a look at compassion fatigue, how it differs from ordinary burnout, why it targets the people who care most, and how the capacity to care can be restored.
When Grief Takes Its Time: What Healthy Grieving Looks Like
Months after a loss, a wave can arrive out of nowhere, in a grocery aisle or a familiar song, long after everyone assumed you were through the worst of it. This is a look at why grief does not follow a schedule, why the idea of neat stages misleads us, and what grief support actually offers when the loss will not settle. Keywords: grief counselling Calgary, how long does grief last, grief comes in waves, prolonged grief, complicated grief, grief therapy Calgary, coping with loss, grief that won't go away