Imposter Syndrome Therapy in Calgary | NU Psychology
Imposter syndrome creates an exhausting double life: there’s the person others see, and the person you fear you really are. Even when you succeed, compliment yourself, or achieve something meaningful, a quiet voice says you just got lucky — or that you’ll eventually be found out.
You might hold high standards, take on too much, or push yourself relentlessly because slowing down feels risky. Or you may downplay your abilities, assume others know more than you, or feel pressure to prove yourself again and again.
If you’re tired of questioning your worth, doubting your achievements, or waiting for the moment someone “finds out,” therapy can help you build a more grounded, confident sense of yourself.
Imposter syndrome isn’t about a lack of skill. It’s about the stories your mind learned to tell to keep you safe.
The Quiet Ways Imposter Syndrome Shows Up
Imposter feelings are rarely dramatic. They’re subtle, steady, and often hard to admit. You might notice:
Feeling undeserving of accomplishments
Worry that you don’t actually know what you’re doing
Fear of being judged, exposed, or not measuring up
Difficulty accepting praise
Downplaying strengths and contributions
Comparing yourself constantly
Believing others overestimate your abilities
Feeling pressure to work harder to compensate
These reactions aren’t character flaws — they’re emotional patterns shaped by earlier experiences, expectations, or environments where you felt you had to earn your place.
Where Imposter Feelings Come From
Many people think imposter syndrome is about confidence, but it’s much deeper.
You might experience imposter feelings because:
You grew up in environments with high expectations
You learned to link worth to performance
You were praised for results, not effort
You were surrounded by comparison or criticism
You were one of the few (or the only) person like you in a setting
You internalized pressure to avoid mistakes
You experienced trauma or invalidation that shaped your self-perception
Your mind may have learned to stay “on guard” — doubting yourself before anyone else can. Therapy helps untangle these stories and gently support you in building a new internal foundation.
Understanding the Cost of Self-Doubt
Imposter syndrome isn’t just a feeling — it can affect your choices, relationships, and well-being. It may lead to:
Overworking or burnout
Hesitating to take opportunities
Avoiding tasks that feel risky or unfamiliar
Feeling anxious during feedback or evaluations
Struggling to trust your own judgment
Emotional exhaustion from constantly monitoring your performance
Therapy helps you understand how these patterns formed and how to shift them.
How NU Supports Imposter Syndrome
We take a compassionate, evidence-informed approach to help you reconnect with your strengths, soften self-doubt, and build a healthier internal narrative. Your therapist may integrate:
Narrative Therapy to reshape the story you tell about yourself
CBT to challenge automatic self-criticism
Emotion-focused work to explore what’s beneath the doubt
ACT to help you move toward your values with less pressure
Trauma-informed approaches when imposter feelings stem from old wounds
Recognizing When It’s Time to Get Support
You might be ready for therapy if:
Praise or achievements feel uncomfortable
You expect perfection from yourself but not others
You fear making mistakes more than you value learning
You feel like you need to “catch up,” even when you’re doing well
You worry about being exposed as inadequate
Your self-doubt is impacting work, school, or relationships
Imposter feelings are isolating — but deeply common, and very treatable. With therapy, people often begin to:
Trust their own abilities
Acknowledge achievements without guilt or minimization
Set realistic expectations
Feel less anxious in areas where they once feared judgment
Separate identity from performance
Develop confidence that feels earned and embodied
Growth doesn’t erase your humility — it simply helps you see yourself clearly.
Support for Teens & Adults
Teens & Young Adults
Teens often experience imposter feelings around academics, social groups, sports, or transitions. Therapy helps them build courage, self-awareness, and confidence early on.
Adults
Adults may struggle with self-doubt in careers, relationships, or new roles. Therapy offers space to explore identity, strengthen boundaries, and move toward opportunities without fear of exposure.
Frequently Asked Questions
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No — it’s a deeply human emotional experience. Therapy still helps immensely.
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Often, yes. Many people with anxiety, trauma histories, or perfectionism experience these patterns.
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No. Therapy fosters grounded confidence, not arrogance. You stay you — just with more clarity and less fear.
Start Therapy for Imposter Syndrome in Calgary
If you feel like you’re constantly proving yourself, or if self-doubt has become your daily companion, therapy can help you build a steadier, more compassionate relationship with who you are. Book online, call, or email to get matched with a Calgary psychologist who specializes in self-worth, confidence, and imposter syndrome.
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